Sunday, 26 February 2012

Losing Your Breasts

Went down from a 40E (Beige) to a 36B (Black)
This is a huge concern for a lot of bigger-breasted women who are gaining weight or have gained. They don't want to diet because they are afraid of losing weight in their breasts. I will tell you my story:

Being a bigger woman with tiny friends, when we went out dancing, or to bars, I felt like they would get hit on, danced with. I would not. Makes you feel really unnattractive. When guys would take notice of me, anywhere, it was because of my breasts. The only compliment I would get paid is that I had 'nice tits' or 'Woohoo Double Ds!' I am saying here, that these were compliments, but really... they weren't. Those aren't real compliments... anyways.

When working out, when I was larger, I was really reluctlant to do any chest exersises because I didn't want to lose any of my only good feature. I would wear clothing that showed it off, I would strut around because I had the DDs and eventually E cups, so I was pretty too.

While losing the weight I was petrified of losing my breasts, and of course, they started shrinking, along with the rest of my body (if not faster). I was really upset in the begining and only recently came to terms with my new flat-chestedness.

When I was fat I associated myself with my breasts. These were the only things I liked about myself. Now that I have lost the weight I can say that I am not my breasts. I like my new body a lot more than I ever liked my breasts. My collarbone shows and I think that's really sexy. I can feel my bones, my face is much prettier, I feel healthy and good looking (when I'm having more confident days).

& the 'compliments' have also changed. Although not a single person would tell me I have nice tits... ever again (thank goodness), I have been called 'stunning' (something, let's be honest, I never in my life thought I would be called by anyone), gorgeous, have beautiful eyes, tiny waist, skinny-mini, pretty, slim, beautiful, the list goes on and so does my ego. ;)

These are all so nice to hear and you know what, they beat out 'nice tits' anyday.



  1. OMG- I love that bra picture!

    Athena Unbound

    1. Thanks :P They were literally in my drawer like that and I thought... omg what a great picture!

      The picture really doesn't do it justice, in person you could really see the difference. Enormous!

  2. I can SO relate. I've gone from a 40D to a 36B and I still have 28 pounds to reach my goal weight. It felt nice buying 2 new bras in Victoria's Secret, though :) And I love that I don't have flab hanging over the sides and that now I can clasp it on the middle clasps.

    Glad you found my blog, because I found yours!!! Putting you on my blog roll!

    1. It's true, I could only find bras that fit me at plus size clothing stores, no cute bras from Lasenza or Victoria's Secret. Now I have cute bras, not just super-heavy-duty ones XD

      Good luck with those last 28 lbs!

  3. I just found your blog, and I'm looking forward to reading your older posts, but being a bra-evangelist, I have to ask if you have had a bra fitting. I used to wear a 36C and found out I was really a 32DDD. Since I've lost another 15lb, I'm now a 30F. Just FYI, my measurements are 30 underbust, 36-37 bust. I'm 5'7", 140-145lb. I wear a size 4-6, or size S. You just look pretty small, like you should have a smaller band and bigger cup than 36B. I actually don't shop at Victoria's Secret anymore, because they add 5" to the underband measurement, and that results in no support in the band, plus they don't carry anything close to a 30F. Usually your underbust measurement should either the same or within 2" of your band size. And congratulations on your transformation!

    1. Now that I have stopped dropping weight I might consider getting a proper bra fitting and a nice bra... Ive been cheaping out because the cup size has been dropping so fast.

      I am 5'6 1/2'', not sure what size I am... probably 8. 155 lbs and size small usually.
      I have definetally not gotten a proper bra fitting since I was measured for my 40Es, hadn't even thought of it. Thanks for the suggestion!


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  18. Unfortunately, I didnt have big breasts. I loved their small size and how nice and firm they were. Now they feel saggy and lm losing them even though my belly remains the same. Will they ever come back?? Im sad to see this!